April 30 8:40 pm or there about...
There are men who can discern the difference between a woman being disinterested in sex and that same woman being in almost desperate need of sexual release. Beyond that, there are men who have the capacity to disarm and dismantle the many layers of barriers and then love that woman the way she needs to be loved. The trouble with all that is, the men with the tools necessary to get past those barriers are generally players. The good men who want to love that woman the way she needs to be loved, but who may lack the capacity, also lack the tools to get there.
An Impasse — But this is the real answer to why women love the Bad Boys. It all comes down to who knows how to really push their buttons right. Not that there aren’t good men who can be bad boys where it counts.
We’re almost in the realm of fairy tales here. And I KNOW this. But these barriers I’ve erected over this lifetime, they are constructed with careful craftsmanship and dedication over an extended time period with the precision that comes only from those deeply afflicted with deepest levels of self-deprecation, and shame of their physical self. That shame has grown with the body, and it’s as grotesque and out of proportion as the actual physical body is, but it was always so.
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